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";s:4:"text";s:2707:"But what can you do when the family you were born into is not only frustrating, but cruel, condescending and downright abusive? It is difficult to mourn the loss of the living. I am beginning to see a very faint light at the end of the tunnel. Scapegoating is often a way for families to hide problems that they cannot face. See more ideas about Scapegoat, Narcissistic mother, Narcissistic parent. My family is much the same way, as you already know. 3. Those who are cast as the family scapegoat develop their esteem in a toxic environment. I have not been in contact with narc family and I have to wonder if there is a new scapegoat. In the examples of cases I have worked with one or both parents were abusive to their children. Why would a family choose a loved one to bully and scapegoat?

They are not chosen at random. I’ll be keeping you in my prayers too. By Glynis Sherwood, posted June 6, 2016 .

Scapegoating is an insidious form of family bullying that is destructive to both the target and family alike. The family scapegoat is the individual who the family generally identifies and blames as being responsible for the family's problems. When, in actual fact, the narcissist has set the scapegoat up to fail. Dec 3, 2018 - Explore kmommyd's board "Family scapegoat" on Pinterest. I’ve been the family scapegoat my whole life, it’s now my ES is doing the same to me along with his step-father. Our family has the ability to frustrate us like no one else can. We all blamed by sibs, extended family, and others for causing the very thing I was railing against from an early age, saying "this is wrong." At this point I was officially made the family scapegoat and I was discarded. ... no clue about scapegoating but the moment I happened to read an article on the subject I knew this is what I am to my family. Other family members minimize or deny their own responsibility and/or participation in family problems. Clearly you are the scapegoat in your family, because you are a truth-teller and it’s the truth tellers who are targeted. The fog has lifted somewhat and I have good days and bad days. When we got married, at first I was golden child, then I was scapegoated also — because I had boundaries and household rules. A golden child seldom suffers consequences for misbehavior and is often praised and applauded, while the scapegoat shoulders the blame for the family's dysfunction and suffers the brunt of the consequences. For the first 2 weeks after discard, I felt I was in a total fog.
Hugs. My husband has been the scapegoat in the past and the extended family helped his ES do the estrangement because they scapegoated the father (my husband).
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